on dating and honesty

Ever since a guy I went on a few dates with last month completely blew me off with no explanation, I’ve been attempting to be nicer to guys when I’m not interested in them. I figure, in some small way, I can give these guys the closure I never got. 

Just because you’re not interested in someone, doesn’t mean you have to be a dick to them. 

There is such a thing as friendship, people should really try it sometime. 

Also, don’t make out with people you’re not interested in. 

We’ve all done it at some point. 

But, definitely don’t. 

Also, don’t text little hearts to people you’re not interested in. 

Definitely don’t. 

Also, just try not to lie to people. It’s infinitely better to be honest then tell white lies to “make people feel better.” 

I’m not stupid, I’m super intuitive, and I can handle the truth. 

So just tell me the truth. 

(One thing I never told you, short lived summer romance boy, was that one of the main reasons I liked you is because you seemed like a vastly improved version of my ex. There were lots of other reasons, but clearly none of them matter because you’re not interested anyway.)

Also, I just told a guy I wasn’t interested in him. It wasn’t difficult. I’m still alive. 

Why couldn’t you just tell me?

*le sigh*

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